The Joy of Pain is a website that examines the ways in which pleasure and pain can  intermingle especially within a sexual context.  We will publish informative and informed articles on these topics to help our visitors better understand their own sexual desires and fantasies and how to make those desires a true part of their lives.  BDSM is a lifestyle with a distinguished heritage and depends on its consensual nature.  Boundaries must be respected at all times and ‘safe words’ used and adhered to.

Within the site we might recommend certain service providers and suppliers who we believe to be worthwhile and reliable.  We cannot, however, be certain of any third party service that is mentioned in the joy of pain website.  All suggestions are in good faith and intended to enhance the pleasure you obtain from your BDSM lifestyle.